I just had duck rice for dinner, which will no doubt be my last duck rice for a while. I'm in my hotel room and the usual packing ritual awaits. I can't bring myself to do it, just yet.
First things first: this will be my last post for at least a week. I will be on a boat in the middle of the Indian Ocean and I doubt I'll see an internet cafe floating by.
I've been in South East Asia for almost seven months now, three of which were spent in Singapore. I'm not ready to leave. And I'm not sure why. Is it because I'm not prepared for India? Or is it because South East Asia exceeded my expectations? I would imagine it is a combination of both.
I remember that first Saturday, July 5th, 2008 when I took this shot of Singapore's Central Business District and it seems like an eternity has passed since then, both chronologically and emotionally. Have I put the time to good use? Yeah, I have. Seeing the things I've seen, doing the things I've done and most especially meeting the amazing people along the road have made this leg of the journey special. I never expected to enjoy, much less find a facsimile for paradise in South East Asia. If Lake Toba was the highlight, these last two and a half weeks spent in Malaysia have been eye opening and extraordinary.
I mentioned before that most South East Asian countries are very homogeneous--at least the ones I visited on this trip. But Malaysia is the very antithesis of homogeneity. What makes Malaysia work is its diversity. Take a look at the shots from today, especially those labeled 'faces of Kuala Lumpur.' There are Tamils, Malays, Buddhist monks, Westerners and Chinese. They are old, young, men and women, covered and not. But what's most impressive about Malaysia isn't its dynamism, it's that Malaysia has done it Malaysia's way. No 'Washington Consensus' here. Their economy works for Malaysians and the common good, something it shares with Singapore, although Singapore is all about an open-economy, Malaysia's is just different. And that's one of the reasons the country didn't slump as hard and as long as so many others did during the Asian Financial Crisis of 1998. Indonesia has never recovered.
Malaysia is relatively clean, cleaner than Thailand, but not yet up to Singapore's exacting standards. The countryside is gorgeous, palm plantations, wild jungle, tea farms and many, many mountains. All of it is green, tropical, wet and humid. 'Tropicalness' is much more pronounced in Malaysia than it is in Vietnam, or Laos or Thailand--but not as strong as Indonesia, although I didn't get to see Malaysian Borneo--next time I hope.
And Malaysian food has distinct differences between those of the other South East Asian states. It's much more Indian and frequently 'halal' food is de riguer in most places. Sure, you can find bacon in Chinatown, but that's about it for pork and other haram foods here. However, the Malay's aren't hardcore Muslims. They aren't Saudis, for sure. Women seem to get on well here. I imagine a part of that is because there is such a significant minority of non-Muslims in the country that hard core sharia law wouldn't work here anyway.
It's funny to think that I blew right through Malaysia when I left Singapore, heading strait to Chiang Mai. It's probably a good thing too. I might have wasted a bunch of time here. There is still so much to see. I can't believe I missed Pulau Perhentian! It's the one beach I was willing to travel to in South East Asia, mostly because it's not like Phuket and filled with a bunch of beer swilling hoodlums, or Bali which is just too overdeveloped for my taste. I found Toba, and for me that is enough.
All the South East Asian countries have their charms. The frank honesty of the Vietnamese, the sweet smiles from lovely Thai girls, glorious Angkor and the mellow Mekong in Laos are but a few. But if it were my choice, I'd recommend Malaysia for the three reasons: prices are excellent, you can see just about anything that South East Asia has to offer in Malaysia and the multi-cultural diversity is just impossible to beat. One never knows what one will see in Malaysia.
Alas, of all the places in South East Asia I loved the most, well, that's a no-brainer: Lake Toba was simply astounding. But I'm grateful I saw them all, or at least all but two: Burma and the Philippines. Next time, I keep telling myself, next time. And now I am going to go engage in the ritual of packing up, preparing to move on in the hopes that I'm ready for India this time, that I'll not be too overwhelmed, or get too sick.
I'd be a liar if I said I wasn't a bit anxious. And I'd be an even bigger liar if I told you that I won't miss East Asia. I will. I'll miss hearing the languages and the amazing (and sometimes awful) smells. I'll miss the smiles and I will miss the food. But the first leg of the journey ends tonight and the second begins tomorrow. As the Spanish say, "Traveller, there are no roads. Roads are made by walking."